hhmmm...tough tough tough topic....but really ar, if they have
kids, then how ???? Follow which religion, if follow both religion,
that's good !...But how about names ? I've a fren who told his
malay gf that, no matter what, the unborn child must follow the guy
side & must have a surname....they would argue abt this and it
will never come to a decisive decision....wah ha ha ha ! So I tell
them, put 2 names lor.... Solve problem what....But the guy just
think my idea was bad....
Anyway, abt one of the topic, you guys mentioned that usually the
men side (malay) will have less problem marrying a chinese, indian,
caucasian, eurasian,etc girl....Bcos, the guy side has more
privileged & freedom.....Not exactly true....
Malay men are usually the guidance, pillar & strength in the
family to guide & teach Islamic teachings to the wife &
kids. This is common. This is just my views about typical malay men
whom are totally devoted to his religion. So, it's toughter if he
were to get married. The opposite sex must convert ! Even the malay
gals also got problem. Bottom line is, it always goes back to the
parents or families who have to approve & give blessings to the
marriage....so that's where problems arise if the parents are very
conservative & religious.
But in my own believes, as long as one love another and not too
religious nor too conservative, they wouldn't mind gg thru a civil
marriage instead.
What do u think ?
